THE DOPEST!!

WITH AGE COMES....

I have never been too quick to jump into relationships. Time wasted is worst than money wasted. I can't deal with a man that is not level headed, goal-oriented and knows what he wants. I like a man that is kind, humble, caring, loving, adventurous and respectful. I'm approaching my 25th birthday(September 12) my aunt asked me why haven't I settled down. The thing is I'm waiting for the man that I am meant to be with.  I'm waiting for the man that truly understands me, respects me and is kind and humble. I have goals and dreams and he has to be able to understand that I will be busy but I will make time for him. I have a infinite love for the arts, dance and visual arts in particular.  I have a passion for helping the youth and caring for children I got my first babysitting gig when I was 13 and loved it to the very last drop screaming babies and all.  I am misunderstood by most and I am waiting until I find that special man that is willing to discover who I am.

Sara

Gone but not forgotten

Being a young African -American with African and Caribbean roots really made me want to research and get to know my roots(What they don't teach in the public school system). I didn't learn who women like Phyllis Wheatley, Janet Collins and Saartjie "Sara" Baartman were. I was honored to discover that Phyllis Wheatley was the first African American published poet.  I was so happy to know that Janet Collins was a ballet dancer, choreographer, and teacher. She performed on Broadway, in films, and appeared frequently on television. I felt disrespected to know that
Saartjie "Sara" Baartman was apart of a freak show due to her enormous breasts, enlarged hips and over sized buttocks. She had  steatopygia. Steatopygia is is a genetic characteristic generally prevalent in women of African origin, most notably among though not limited to the Khoisan.

Saartije was a KhoiKhoi woman from South Africa. she was sold to London by an enterprising Scottish doctor named Alexander Dunlop, accompanied by a showman named Hendrik Cesars. She spent four years in Britain being exhibited for her large buttocks. The labia minora  or inner lips, of the ordinary female genitalia are greatly enlarged in Khoi-San women, and may hang down three or four inches below the vulva when women stand, thus giving the impression of a separate and enveloping curtain of skin".

 In the 1800s, people in London were able to pay two shillings apiece to gaze upon her body in wonder. Baartman was considered a freak of nature. For extra pay, one could even poke her with a stick or finger. Baartman never allowed this trait to be exhibited while she was alive, and an account of her appearance in London in 1810 makes it clear that she was wearing a garment, although a tight-fitting one.Her treatment caught the attention of British abolitionists, who tried to rescue her, but she claimed that she had come to London on her own accord. In 1814, after  Dunlop's death, she traveled to Paris. With two consecutive showmen, Henry Taylor and S. Reaux, she amused onlookers who frequented the Palais-Royal. She was subjected to examination by Georges Cuvier, a professor of comparative anatomy at the Museum of Natural History. In the  post- Napoleonic era France, sideshows like the Hottentot Venus lost their appeal. Baartman lived on in poverty, and died in Paris of an undetermined inflammatory disease in December 1815. After her death, Cuvier dissected her body, then displayed her remains. For more than a century and a half, visitors to the Museum of Man in Paris could view her brain, skeleton and genitalia until she was buried.

Although  Baartman refused to be an experiment while she was alive. With permission from police, Cuvier, who had amassed the world's largest collection of human and animal specimens, conducted an autopsy on Baartman's dead body. First he made a cast of her body, then he preserved her brain and genitals.Cuvier concluded that "the Hottentots" were closer to great Apes than humans. The rest of Baartman's flesh was boiled down to bones for Cuvier's collection and displayed for years afterward. Baartman's body did not receive a proper burial until much later.After her death, Sarah Baartman's body underwent dissection and 'analysis' of her brain, organs, genitalia and buttocks. Blaineville and Cuvier had asked Baartman to allow them to study her nude while she had been alive and she had refused them this request. No consent had been given by Baartman to allow scientists to see, touch or use her body for 'scientific' purposes after her death.

Della Perry and Ruth Whiteside are feminist theorists who have discussed how the label 'disability' and the term 'biological determinism' have affected the exploitation, discrimination and abuse of women and people of African descent. They comment on how differences in biology have dictated a social hierarchy and stratification. Sara Baartman's organs, genitalia and buttocks were thought to be evidence of her sexual primitivism and intellectual equality with that of an orangutan.

During the lengthy negotiation to have Baartman's body returned to her home country after her death, the assistant curator of Musee de l' homme, Philippe Mennecier argued against her return stating: "we never know what science will be able to tell us in the future. If she is buried, this chance will be lost ... for us she remains a very important treasure." According to Sadiah Qureshi, due to the continued treatment of Baartman's body as a cultural artifact, Philippe Mennecier's statement is contemporary evidence of the same type of ideology that surrounded Saartjie Baartman's body while she was alive in the 19th century.

Media representation and feminist criticism
In November 2014, Paper Magazine  released a cover of  Kim Kardashian  in which she was illustrated as balancing a champagne bottle on her extended rear. The cover received much literary criticism for endorsing "the exploitation and fetishism of the black female body."The photo has received much criticism and commentary on mimicking the way in which Baartman was represented as the "Hottentot Venus" during the 19th century. According to writer Geneva S. Thomas, anyone that is aware of black women's history under colonialist influence would consequentially be aware that Kardashian's photo easily elicits memory regarding the visual representation of Baartman.

Similarly, Baartman and other black female slaves were illustrated and depicted in a specific form to identify features, which were seen as proof of ideologies regarding black female primitivism.

Young boys and so called men in the new generation often refer to women mainly African American women as THOTS. That horrible nasty word stemmed from from her nickname Hottentot Venus.  The KKK even adopted the term during slavery that is how they referred to black women.

http://keediescorner.com/2014/08/02/the-origin-of-the-word-thot/

Saartjie Baartman's grave, on a hill overlooking Hankey in the Gamtoos River Valley, Eastern Cape, South Africa

Signboard at the grave, including the poem by 

I AM A WOMAN

People say that women can’t be great athletes. Women happen to be more than athletes in the sports industry they happen to be reporters and anchors. You see women like Sage Steele sitting behind the desk on ESPN giving the men a run for their money. I came across a very interesting article titled “ Women in sports:Dispelling some myths.” In this article it discusses five myths about women's athletics. First the article discuss the issue of women’s sports not getting  enough media coverage.  Secondly the article discusses the issue of men not watching women's sports. Third the article brings up the topic of women’s pro sports leagues being viable.  The fourth myth that the article touches on is how title IX is hurting mens sports. The last myth that caught my eye was women’s sports would be more popular if players dressed provocatively.

While reading this article there are few of these myths that really stood out to me considering that I am a woman that happens to be interested in sports as well as the arts. I feel that it is very sexist that viewers only want to watch women’s sports if the female athletes are half dressed. I feel that as a woman in the industry it is important to not only show the world that you can be as great as Michael Jordan and Magic Johnson, but to also leave your mark in a male dominated industry. I feel that women are only looked at as an object rather than a tennis player, soccer player basketball player or just a plain old athlete. I feel that the industry has changed slightly, now when you turn on the TV or happen to be at a game  you see women reporting updates from the sideline of the Gridiron or from the locker room. I think that women athletes deserve a fair and equal opportunity in the sports industry.

http://jacksonville.com/news/2015-08-15/story/women-sports-dispelling-some-myths

http://fusion.net/story/183511/top-women-in-sports-2015-serena-williams-ronda-rousey/

http://www.allaccess.com/net-news/archive/story/145229/alliance-for-women-in-media-announce-women-in-spor